Should your Community choose your Spouse (at least confirm)?

Although you have made some good points, my answer to your question is absolutely not. A couple can make a mistake by marrying unwisely, but yet it is their mistake. To allow an entire community to decide the future for a couple based on what they perceive to be right or ideal is completely unethical. If we, as thinking human beings, cannot make the decision to marry and remain faithful to our spouses, we have no business marrying to begin with. We have the ability to decide if we want to marry, if we want to remain faithful to one person until death do us part. Although many choose to stray, it is a choice made willingly. We are not animals. We have the ability to choose.